What If......

Why do we as humans visualize aspects of our lives with multiples endings…… why do we always replay past events and change the outcomes that are clearly not in our destiny? Our emotions can really get the best of us and we have to learn how to accept things for what they are. I found myself deep in thought about a situation that I am clearly happy to be out of but wondering “What If”. Curiosity always has you caught up in false hopes…and the coulda, shoulda, woulda in life. Sometimes you just have to believe that you are not in that situation for a reason, you did not react to that situation for a reason, be still and allow life to run its course. I know it’s easier said than done but focus on the good that came from it. Don’t allow the mind to trick you back into something that was toxic, wait for your moment!! So next time you are over thinking any past event just remember … It was not for you and thank GOD for unanswered prayers!!